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UNLOCK FREEDOM: END BAD HABITS IN JUST 90 DAYS!

Uncategorized May 17, 2024

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How to Release Worry & Achieve Goals More Powerfully (with an Exercise You Can Try while reading)

Uncategorized Mar 08, 2024

Think of one of your most important goals, or desires, right now.

Something you want:

  • to achieve
  • to learn
  • to experience
  • to have
  • to bring into your life

Got it in your mind?

 

Now I want to ask you:

How much time do you spend worrying about this goal? (Answer in a percentage over a period of time. For example, one person’s response may be: “40% of the time over the last 2 weeks.”)

 

NOTE: If your answer is that you worry 0% of the time. And, if you are already in a state of

  • complete belief that it is possibe
  • complete belief that you are worthy of receiving/achieving this desire
  • complete trust that it is happening, coming your way

If you are a “yes” for these things I just listed, you can skip the remaining part of this email and rest assured that what you want is coming your way, in a way better than you can imagine. Just keep going.

Because your inner state of being affects your outer reality. If you don’t believe in unseen powers...

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Free Masterclass (Access Here): "How to Be Free From Pornography Without Willpower, Streak Counting, or Shame/Fear Tactics

Uncategorized Feb 02, 2024
 

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Disregulation or Conscious Consumption? Which One is it For You?

Uncategorized Jan 23, 2024

Overusing pornography has to do with buffering.

Buffering is to use something external to try to change how we feel internally. In other words, trying to escape uncomfortable feelings. 

It’s the perfect solution for an overstimulated society.

 

Many of us live inside a disregulated body and a racing mind. This is the result of compounding stress and trauma that leads to overstimulation.

Our culture doesn’t understand the nervous system. This just becomes our normal.

 

A majority of adults didn’t learn how to self soothe.

Self soothing is learned in our developmental years. 

These developmental years play the groundwork for how we cope with uncomfortable emotions and stress as adults. 

 

Porn becomes a normalized way of coping because it:

  •  increases dopamine (“feel good chemical”) in an unnatural, concentrated way
  •  distracts from uncomfortable emotions and the sensations of stress
  •  if joined with masturbation...
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Quit Pornography For Good Using This Scientific Experiment

Uncategorized Jan 05, 2024

To Effectively Quit Porn For Good, You Need to Understand This Scientific Principle

 

Okay, we’re talking about:

  1. Pavlov’s dogs
  2. Two parts of your brain to be aware of
  3. How to be both the scientist (trainer) and the dog

 

And even if you’ve heard of Pavlov’s Dogs before, I’m going to share with you a twist that a lot of you maybe haven’t heard.

 

This is a famous experiment that you’ll find in a lot of college text books, especially psychology books.

 

Pavlov is the name of a scientist who did this experiment with some dogs.

 

It’s about conditioned, or learned, behavior in the brains of dogs.

 

Side note: as humans, a simple way to think about it is that we have 2 parts of our brain involved: 

  • the lower part of our brain is kind of dog-like (very unconscious and automatic). 
  • And The upper part is the part that makes us human (conscious, where we think on purpose).

 

The Steps of the...

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Here's the True You

Uncategorized Dec 28, 2023

You are not your porn habit.

 

You can be worthy and view porn at the same time.

 

You can be whole and complete and view porn at the same time.

 

Who you truly are is something pornography cannot diminish or touch.

 

Porn is something you’ve experienced. It is not you.

If it is not you, then what does that mean for you?

 

It means: 

  • you can stop doing it. 
  • You can move beyond it. 
  • You can expand past it. 
  • You can grow through it. 
  • You can let it go of it. 
  • You can experience life without it.

 

You are forever. Porn is not.

 

You are always expanding and growing. Porn just sits there.

 

Your joy and worthiness can coexist with pornography.

 

It’s easier to let go of porn when you stop attaching it to your joy and worthiness.

 

If you are infinite and porn is just a temporary thing. What do you want your life to be?

What do you want your experience with (or without) porn to be from here on...

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If Don't Change Something, P*rn on Christmas 2024?

Uncategorized Dec 20, 2023

Which of These 2 Types of People Are You?

Are you the kind of person who keeps trying the same thing expecting different results?

Or are you the kind of person willing to take decisive new action, with new inputs that lead to new results?

Your habits, your feelings, your behavior, your results, 

It all starts with learned thought patterns.

If you don’t learn new thinking, then at Christmas 2024:

  • Same thinking
  • Same decisions
  • Same old results.
  • Hiding up in your room on Dec. 25 viewing porn on your new tablet and masturbating

When I say to use Thought Work to learn new thinking,

Some people think this just means to stop thinking about porn whenever you notice thoughts about porn.  

No. This is not what I mean.

For new results/behavior, you’ll need to change the way (the manner in which) you think about porn.

You’ll need to change your thinking around several subjects, including: 

  • failure, 
  • learning, 
  • progress, 
  • yourself, 
  • ...
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Picture It: People Like You, Results Like These

Uncategorized Dec 19, 2023

This is You, a Year From Now

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Why Handle Stress Differently Than Emotions (Helps You Quit a Porn Habit For Good)

Uncategorized Dec 11, 2023
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Podcast Eps 44: Elimination, Simplification, and What Not to Eliminate

Uncategorized Oct 16, 2023
 

“One does not accumulate but eliminate. It is not daily increase but daily decrease. The height of cultivation always runs to simplicity.” -Bruce Lee

“Perfection is not when there is no more to add, but no more to take away.” -Antoine de Sainte Exulpery, Pioneer of international postal flight, and author of Le Petit Prince (the little prince)

“It is vain to do with more what can be done with less.” - William of Occam, originator of Occam’s razor

A lot of the guys who come to me for coaching, are smart, driven guys. They try hard. laziness is not their problem. 

A lot of them are very productive guys, or at least strive for productivity.

The hustle and the value of productivity aren’t bad, but the way they are expressed can get in the way of you learning to quit porn for good.

Remember, it’s not a porn problem, but a mind management problem.

Don’t try to solve your porn problem by starting with eliminating pleasure and...

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